#Civility #SoloMotivation

When we learn to live together.

This is the fifth in a series of posts reflec­ting on the gene­ral decline of civi­li­ty. These posts should be read in order of publi­ca­tion. Star­ting with num­ber six, for example, would make no sense to the rea­der. Hap­py reading!

Civi­li­ty is dif­ferent from know­ledge in that it is some­thing that does not trans­fer well from one per­son to ano­ther. A bit like any other dis­ci­pline, even if the supreme mas­ter of this dis­ci­pline told you a lot about it, it is only by prac­ti­cing it that you can real­ly learn, because yes, the mind will train itself to deve­lop reflexes that will allow you to pro­gress in your mas­te­ry of this art.

These two people who live inter­de­pen­dent­ly will need to main­tain a heal­thy rela­tion­ship. Why is that? Let’s see.

  1. If the two don’t want to reach this inter­de­pen­dence, they will die. End of story.
  2. Either per­son would like to achieve cer­tain goals that can­not be achie­ved through this heal­thy rela­tion­ship. If the other part­ner doesn’t show an inter­est in this adven­ture, it is clear that if an alter­na­tive part­ner were to appear, it would be temp­ting to replace the pre­vious one with this one. Other­wise, death.

This is why both of them should strive to main­tain a rela­tion­ship that is condu­cive to the achie­ve­ment of their desi­red goals. These goals can be very mini­ma­list or more com­plex. We will refer to the hie­rar­chy of needs once again to deter­mine the clas­si­fi­ca­tion of these objectives.

To be continued…

-Dan­ny

I’m Dan­ny (aka Coa­ch­Dan­ny). I have a pas­sion: humans. Come with me and take this minute eve­ry day to explore what’s going on today and why is it tren­ding. Click here to get your dai­ly thought right on time for break­fast.

Sources: https://solomotivation.com

Trans­la­tion by Abbie Sims: https://www.linkedin.com/in/acsims/

Last Upda­ted on May 12, 2021 by Coach Dan­ny

Coach Danny

See in me a trustworthy person who will not disappoint you. Although, like you, I have to work to make a living, your well being is my main interest and together we will find goals to make you feel fulfilled and proud of you. It has nothing to do with your bank account, your physical appearance or your material assets. Let’s be clear, we are working on fundamental levers for every human, whether you are a homeless person or part of royalty, you have these same levers. I’m Danny (aka CoachDanny). The people I work with are few, but they all have one thing in common. They share a common goal, self-fulfillment and more.

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