When things are easier alone than by two

Today is Natio­nal girl­friend day, and my first thought was that things are often more com­pli­ca­ted by two than by your­self. Let’s see what it means. I know that one of the human beha­viours, like any other life-form who needs to repro­duce itself with the oppo­site sexual one, is to final­ly find someone to share some time and expe­riences and to even­tual­ly breed.

Excuse my rude bio­lo­gist tone, but this is most­ly what we may expect as a life form. All the tech­niques and tricks and other smart ideas that we may find to make this reu­nion come true, it is usual­ly a signi­fi­cant change in our rou­tine struc­ture to start living with someone else or at least sha­ring many moments toge­ther from a spe­ci­fic point in time.

I alrea­dy tal­ked about this in my hun­dredth post, and we ended up dis­co­ve­ring that living with someone else can­not be redu­ced to a single sexual act in the objec­tive of reproduction.

For sure, some people may focus on the plea­sures obtai­ned by such acti­vi­ties, but in rea­li­ty, the vast majo­ri­ty of people are expec­ting much more from a rela­tion­ship then just flesh contact.

Concer­ning our­selves, this intense quest in fin­ding someone to share and give up half of your avai­lable time, in my opi­nion, and if you’re not pre­pa­red, may total­ly dis­rupt your moti­va­tion model ending up by going into this dark place where you feel so com­for­table the end­less routine.

So think twice before onboar­ding in such enter­prise, you may want to ful­ly pre­pare your life struc­ture to avoid such dis­rup­tion or at the very least avoid being sucked in dis­place we try so much to escape. Stay agile.

-Dan­ny

I’m Dan­ny (aka Coa­ch­Dan­ny). I have a pas­sion: humans. Come with me and take this minute eve­ry day to explore what’s going on today and why is it tren­ding. Click here to get your dai­ly thought right on time for break­fast.

Sources: https://solomotivation.com   

Last Upda­ted on Novem­ber 15, 2019 by Coach Dan­ny