When you have to stand up

It is not so easy to do that when we car­ry the weight on our shoul­ders. Let’s have a look at what I mean by that. Bul­lying is a dif­fi­cult thing to over­come. It is rare to see a per­son stan­ding up to a bul­ly. Not always, but often, the atta­cker chooses their vic­tim by making sure they don’t pick someone too tough. It’s at that moment where you come into play.

If you wit­ness bul­lying, after confir­ming it with ano­ther per­son, or even the per­son concer­ned, because yes, good Sama­ri­tans come to the weak and defen­ce­less’ rescue without that being the case. We can’t blame them, after all, but it can have conse­quences, which we’ll talk about later. So what I was saying is that once we have confir­med the situa­tion, we must act without fur­ther delay, in coope­ra­tion with the vic­tim, of course. The idea is not to neces­sa­ri­ly defend, but in my opi­nion, to help the vic­tim become stron­ger, while also cor­rec­ting the bully’s beha­viour, that goes without saying.

As for false situa­tions, we have to be care­ful not to turn a per­son into a wolf without that being the case, people can seek revenge a lit­tle too qui­ck­ly. But that doesn’t mean you have to judge things for your­self, confirm it with ano­ther witness.

-Dan­ny

I’m Dan­ny (aka Coa­ch­Dan­ny). I have a pas­sion: humans. Come with me and take this minute eve­ry day to explore what’s going on today and why is it tren­ding. Click here to get your dai­ly thought right on time for break­fast.

Sources: https://solomotivation.com

Trans­la­tion by Abbie Sims: https://www.linkedin.com/in/acsims/

Last Upda­ted on March 19, 2020 by Coach Dan­ny