#NationalHotChocolateDay #SoloMotivation

When you feel lonely

Today, I feel lone­ly. Let’s see why. You’ll remem­ber that I use this blog a bit like a dia­ry. Well, here’s a more per­so­nal entry. Today, I feel like I’m alone. Not phy­si­cal­ly alone in the world, but alone in my sense of belon­ging. Like in the expres­sion “out of sight, out of mind”, even if I know that other people share my ques­tio­ning or opi­nion, it appears that, in my sur­roun­dings, I am alone in asking myself these ques­tions. Why?

First­ly, because this kind of thin­king is somew­hat taboo. It is the­re­fore not prac­ti­sed or neces­sa­ri­ly appre­cia­ted. Thin­king that ques­tions a sys­tem that is wor­king and which is based on phi­lo­so­phi­cal let­ting go. Yet, “why” is a very popu­lar ques­tion, both at work and at home, but the search for the true ans­wer requires signi­fi­cant effort and the choice to opt for a rea­dy-made solu­tion is often the most popu­lar. (Fast food?)

Second­ly, not tal­king to my loved ones is a per­so­nal choice, so I am aware of my lone­li­ness. This type of thin­king, although for almost eve­ryone, can­not be done at any time. For example, my part­ner is spor­ty. If she invi­ted me to run a 20 km race with her, without the pos­si­bi­li­ty of an emer­gen­cy exit or of being able to with­draw, or of going back, I would be at great risk of inju­ring myself or even put­ting my life in dan­ger. The same goes for the mind. I can impose com­plex rea­so­ning on a friend who does not engage in this type of expe­rience in the same way that a child is not taught abs­tract mathe­ma­ti­cal theo­rems from the outset.

So I’m going to go and make myself a nice hot cho­co­late and hope­ful­ly, I’ll find some com­fort in it. What about you?


I’m Dan­ny (aka Coa­ch­Dan­ny). I have a pas­sion: humans. Come with me and take this minute eve­ry day to explore what’s going on today and why is it tren­ding. Click here to get your dai­ly thought right on time for break­fast.

Sources: https://solomotivation.com

Trans­la­tion by Abbie Sims: https://www.linkedin.com/in/acsims/

Last Upda­ted on Februa­ry 7, 2020 by Coach Dan­ny

Coach Danny

See in me a trustworthy person who will not disappoint you. Although, like you, I have to work to make a living, your well being is my main interest and together we will find goals to make you feel fulfilled and proud of you. It has nothing to do with your bank account, your physical appearance or your material assets. Let’s be clear, we are working on fundamental levers for every human, whether you are a homeless person or part of royalty, you have these same levers. I’m Danny (aka CoachDanny). The people I work with are few, but they all have one thing in common. They share a common goal, self-fulfillment and more.

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