When balance applies to us

Yes­ter­day, I told you about my defi­ni­tion of me. Let’s see where that leads us. By adding up my per­cep­tion of myself and that of my wife – I am tal­king here about my per­cep­tion of what I believe to be her per­cep­tion – we can come up with a defi­ni­tion that could begin to resemble who I am. It includes a view from the inside and a view from the out­side. In my opi­nion, my rela­tion­ship with my wife adjusts my defi­ni­tion of me, but only par­tial­ly. Now, if we add that to my chil­dren, my fami­ly, my friends, my col­leagues and other, this will all influence my defi­ni­tion of myself. This simple two-dimen­sio­nal dia­gram repre­sen­ta­tion is simple, but much easier to unders­tand in my opi­nion. (Me = Danny)

You will unders­tand that the balance that I men­tio­ned ear­lier applies to the circles in this dia­gram. The invest­ment of your time in main­tai­ning these facets must be balan­ced because ulti­ma­te­ly, when these circles are present, they are part of us, but when they leave, they tear off part of our iden­ti­ty, some­thing which is com­ple­te­ly nor­mal. So, consi­der that it is impor­tant to keep on top of these facets equal­ly, but to favour one. I’ll let you guess which one I would recom­mend pro­tec­ting at all costs.

-Dan­ny

I’m Dan­ny (aka Coa­ch­Dan­ny). I have a pas­sion: humans. Come with me and take this minute eve­ry day to explore what’s going on today and why is it tren­ding. Click here to get your dai­ly thought right on time for break­fast.

Sources: https://solomotivation.com   

Last Upda­ted on Novem­ber 15, 2019 by Coach Dan­ny