When we have a crush on a tag

Today (well, not real­ly today as I am run­ning behind by a couple of weeks! But any­way…) is the day of book­lo­vers. Let’s have a look at what this is. I’m in love with this tag. I alrea­dy tal­ked about the power of words in these blog posts https://coachdanny.ca/2019/04/23/worldbookday-4/, https://coachdanny.ca/2019/03/07/worldbookday-2/, but to declare my love for books today, well, it’s quite sur­pri­sing. First and fore­most, I would say that decla­ring your love for some­thing or someone is a pret­ty dif­fi­cult pro­cess. It ulti­ma­te­ly boils down to dis­re­gar­ding our fear of rejec­tion. This rejec­tion is direct­ly lin­ked to our level 3 moti­va­tion (wow, I like to speak in terms of levels, but yes, it is not com­ple­te­ly “scien­ti­fi­cal­ly cor­rect” :o)) and as you alrea­dy know, we will always tend to pro­tect any regres­sion from this hie­rar­chy of needs.

In the case of a human being, it is quite obvious that rejec­tion, although it has lit­tle impact, is clear­ly jus­ti­fied depen­ding on the effort and time inves­ted. But when it comes to an object or a theme, it can’t hurt to fall in love with some­thing that does not have the power to reject you.[DT1]  So, let all book­lo­vers join us and pluck up the cou­rage to solemn­ly declare their love for our dear books!

-Dan­ny

I’m Dan­ny (aka Coa­ch­Dan­ny). I have a pas­sion: humans. Come with me and take this minute eve­ry day to explore what’s going on today and why is it tren­ding. Click here to get your dai­ly thought right on time for break­fast.

Sources: https://solomotivation.com  

 [DT1]Can you explain this sen­tence please? I would have wrote “what bad does it do to wor­ry your­self over it.” Does it change the mea­ning? Thanks!

Last Upda­ted on Novem­ber 15, 2019 by Coach Dan­ny